You are on a bus when a young woman takes a seat next to you, looking into your eyes says “It happened again”. What do you do? What do you say?
You are on a bus when a young woman takes a seat next to you, looking into your eyes says “It happened again”. What do you do? What do you say? That’s how we played it. All right so there is a difference here. If you are a new student on the first day of school, this situation is quite acceptable. But if you happen to be of age and have experienced this particular situation before, then saying something like “The next time you go to the bar, I am walking behind you” or “Just watch me” might not be a good idea. By the way, what would you say if someone, even an elder, insulted your mother that way? Will you be ok with that? Does it not hurt your feelings? Would you rather have her say “Shut up, you fucking little bitch!” That would definitely hurt your feelings. But the offensive behavior is the responsibility of that young lady. We wanted to have this on our license plate because it talks about what good young men and women, well-behaved and not ugly, citizens our country should be. “Poland is Beautiful, Our Women are Beautiful!” This is good for both women and men, and a good life for both. When you think of this plate, think of this nice guy who has a beautiful wife, wonderful children, a good job, and is respected by everyone. That is how he would feel. What we are doing is fulfilling our national duties as citizens of Poland.”
To put it another way: Polish people are beautiful, but if you live here, you should stop being ugly. And then let us know what you would say.
You are on a bus when a woman takes the seat next to you and says “It happened again.” You can’t resist and ask her, “What happened again?”
She tells you a story about her neighbor, who gave her an unwanted “kiss” on the mouth when he wanted more wine. She is shocked and embarrassed. You are shocked and fascinated and you ask her “Do you want to tell me about it?”
Instead of saying the magic words, “I don’t want to tell you” you say “I don’t want to offend you” and you walk away. Of course, you don’t offend her. Because as a single, independent, sexually empowered woman who likes to have casual sex, your choice of words is a gesture of respect. You are showing the woman in question that you are capable of having sex without sex.
Women who find that is all they need to do to make a difference, are mistaken. That not what they really want. They want to be respected and appreciated for who they are as an individual. They want to know that you respect their choices and their personalities.
They want to be told that they can make a positive difference in the world and that you will follow them and encourage them. They don’t want to be told that they can’t make a difference.
All of this is easier said than done.
Sexually active women will rarely tell you about all of the emotional and sexual experiences they have had. They are afraid that you won’t understand and they are afraid that you will find them boring. I know, because that happens to me all the time.
They don’t want to talk about it or ask for advice about it. They don’t want advice or prodding. They just want to be told that they are great people and that you want them to do well. When they tell you that they had a great time and didn’t want to end it, it doesn’t mean that they want to sleep with you.
Lusty women are women who like sex and desire other women. In fact, they like sex so much that they don’t even mind if the sex is casual. That means that sometimes, you are getting sex that is not on the service of a long-term relationship.