It’s your wedding day. Everything is fine, but your aunt starts a huge fight with a waitress.

It’s your wedding day. Everything is fine, but your aunt starts a huge fight with a waitress. You are not mad at her, but your wife is.

I’ve been there, and I’ve been there with someone else.

She’s your friend, and she’s hurting.

Be there for her.

Get the waitress’s name and number.

If your wife was there, you would have known to do this.

You know the right thing to do.

It will be hard, but the girl will be in her time of need, and she needs to be held.

It’s hard to accept help, but there are people who are willing to help and you need to open your arms and let them in.

You are her family.

She knows you are supposed to.

You know it too, but you have to let her see it.

It’s the right thing to do, and it will make you both stronger in the end.

People will talk.

It’s inevitable.

People will talk about how you are a terrible husband.

They will say it to you, behind your back, to other people, to their friends, to their wives.

It’s horrible to be judged for the way you are in your marriage, especially if you are both miserable, but it’s part of the deal.

You have to handle it.

You know what people are going to say, so you can try to prepare.

You want to prepare.

You need to be prepared.

You know how to do this, so you have to be able to talk about it, and know how to be held when you need to be held.

People will give you advice.

You might even ask for it.

You are not obligated to take it, but you may get it.

It will be helpful and painful all at the same time.

You know it is the right thing to do, so you have to do it.

No one knows what you need better than you.

They may be wrong, but they might be right.

It’s hard to do, but it’s the right thing to do.

The right thing to do is to let her go.

She’s your friend, and she’s hurting.

You can do this, and you should do it.

You will never regret helping.

It will hurt more if you don’t do it.

You can do this, and you should do it.

She will feel better.